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Preschool developmental milestones: 4 and 5 year olds
Preschool developmental milestones: 4 and 5 year olds

Dahlia Rimmon, RDN
Content Writer

Dr. Marcy Borieux
Pediatrician



What are developmental milestones?
Developmental milestones are specific skills and behaviors most children reach by a particular age. Milestones track growth in physical, cognitive, social, and emotional development and are organized into three areas:
Physical milestones: Gross motor skills (like walking or jumping) and fine motor skills (like picking up objects with fingers).
Speech and language milestones: Understanding and using verbal and nonverbal language.
Social and emotional milestones: Interacting with others, managing emotions, and building relationships.
4-year-old development milestones
Physical milestones
Balance on one foot
Alternating feet when climbing stairs
Climbing
Swinging on a swing
Hop on one foot
Catch balls
Use a zipper
Pedals a tricycle
Cognitive milestones
Count to 10
Knows colors
Understand the concept of time
Obey rules
Social-emotional milestones
Pretend play
Comforts others
Cooperates and plays with others
Understands sharing and taking turns
Fine motor milestones
Copy geometric shapes
Draws people with three body parts
Writes capital letters
Dress without assistance
Wipe after the bathroom
Use utensils at meals
Use scissors
Language milestones
Remembers parts of a story
Use four-word sentences
Tell stories
Sing songs
Ask questions
4-year-old: How parents can help
Read every day to improve vocabulary
Practice counting
Play outside
Provide opportunities for pretend play
Can share stories about preschool
Ask your child questions about their day and preschool
Set up play dates or social outings with other kids
5-year-old development milestones
Physical milestones
Somersault
Skip
Balance on one foot
Hop on one foot
Cognitive milestones
Count to 10 or more
Recognize most letters of the alphabet
Understand the days of the week
Engage in complex imaginative play
Solve simple problems
Social-emotional milestones
Takes turns when playing with others
Follows rules
Can complete simple chores
Testing boundaries
Fine motor milestones
Can write name
Write uppercase and lowercase letters
Draw a person with 6 body parts
Use scissors
Write some numbers
Language milestones
Recall stories or events
Can converse in an ongoing conversation
Understand the concept of time
Follow multi-step directions
5-year-old: How parents can help
Read every day to improve their vocabulary
Practice counting
Play outside
Provide opportunities for pretend play
Ask to share stories about kindergarten and their day
Set up play dates or social outings with other kids
Developmental progress
Every child is different and develops at their own pace. While developmental milestones provide general benchmarks, it's normal for children to reach them at different times. Some children excel in one area and take their time in others. Factors like temperament, family environment, and biology influence developmental progress. Instead of comparing your child to other children, focus on their patterns of progress.
When to consult your pediatrician
Contact your local or Summer Health pediatrician if your child:
Misses multiple developmental milestones
Shows a noticeable regression in skills (like losing language or motor abilities)
Seems significantly delayed in areas such as speech, social interaction, or physical mobility
Shows problems with hearing, vision, or overall health that could impact development
If indicated, your pediatrician will refer your child to a developmental specialist for evaluation and support.
What are developmental milestones?
Developmental milestones are specific skills and behaviors most children reach by a particular age. Milestones track growth in physical, cognitive, social, and emotional development and are organized into three areas:
Physical milestones: Gross motor skills (like walking or jumping) and fine motor skills (like picking up objects with fingers).
Speech and language milestones: Understanding and using verbal and nonverbal language.
Social and emotional milestones: Interacting with others, managing emotions, and building relationships.
4-year-old development milestones
Physical milestones
Balance on one foot
Alternating feet when climbing stairs
Climbing
Swinging on a swing
Hop on one foot
Catch balls
Use a zipper
Pedals a tricycle
Cognitive milestones
Count to 10
Knows colors
Understand the concept of time
Obey rules
Social-emotional milestones
Pretend play
Comforts others
Cooperates and plays with others
Understands sharing and taking turns
Fine motor milestones
Copy geometric shapes
Draws people with three body parts
Writes capital letters
Dress without assistance
Wipe after the bathroom
Use utensils at meals
Use scissors
Language milestones
Remembers parts of a story
Use four-word sentences
Tell stories
Sing songs
Ask questions
4-year-old: How parents can help
Read every day to improve vocabulary
Practice counting
Play outside
Provide opportunities for pretend play
Can share stories about preschool
Ask your child questions about their day and preschool
Set up play dates or social outings with other kids
5-year-old development milestones
Physical milestones
Somersault
Skip
Balance on one foot
Hop on one foot
Cognitive milestones
Count to 10 or more
Recognize most letters of the alphabet
Understand the days of the week
Engage in complex imaginative play
Solve simple problems
Social-emotional milestones
Takes turns when playing with others
Follows rules
Can complete simple chores
Testing boundaries
Fine motor milestones
Can write name
Write uppercase and lowercase letters
Draw a person with 6 body parts
Use scissors
Write some numbers
Language milestones
Recall stories or events
Can converse in an ongoing conversation
Understand the concept of time
Follow multi-step directions
5-year-old: How parents can help
Read every day to improve their vocabulary
Practice counting
Play outside
Provide opportunities for pretend play
Ask to share stories about kindergarten and their day
Set up play dates or social outings with other kids
Developmental progress
Every child is different and develops at their own pace. While developmental milestones provide general benchmarks, it's normal for children to reach them at different times. Some children excel in one area and take their time in others. Factors like temperament, family environment, and biology influence developmental progress. Instead of comparing your child to other children, focus on their patterns of progress.
When to consult your pediatrician
Contact your local or Summer Health pediatrician if your child:
Misses multiple developmental milestones
Shows a noticeable regression in skills (like losing language or motor abilities)
Seems significantly delayed in areas such as speech, social interaction, or physical mobility
Shows problems with hearing, vision, or overall health that could impact development
If indicated, your pediatrician will refer your child to a developmental specialist for evaluation and support.
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